We live in a society where most people think that once a man sees a beautiful woman then automatically he has “fallen” for her.

We, men, can bump into a beautiful lady in a mall, for example, and have an innocent conversation with the beautiful lady without any mischievous intent.

A lot of women seem to think that once you, as a man, talk to a beautiful lady, then all of a sudden you want to be Solomon, forgetting that a mere conversation can come out of nowhere and can grow without anyone wanting anyone.

This misconception made me realize that when women say all this stuff about men not knowing how to control themselves when there’s women around, is all because of their insecurities.

Let me explain why I say it’s their insecurities.

A lot of women are used to thirsty guys in their DM’s, so they automatically think that every guy out there is like those guys in their DM’s. Another simple reason is the fact that women know how other women behave. What I mean by this is that sometimes women don’t trust each other, and then because of that vulnerability, they don’t want men to interact with other women for any reason whatsoever.

This can also be caused by simple reasons such women not feeling as if they are good enough for that particular guy. Sometimes it’s just inside girl’s head’s that men want every beautiful girl they come across with. It’s all a facade!

I think its a misconception that men can’t handle themselves, and because of this misconception, men just don’t get enough credit for handling themselves.

Something that a lot of women don’t consider when they accuse men of falling for every women is the fact that men also DO reject women.

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Hi, I'm Sisonke Lwandile Mcaba, an aspiring Applications Developer with an obsession for all things Tech.
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